Words and reactions matter, and they both have the power to hurt deeply. Even when you don’t realize it, how you treat or react to people can make someone pursue unrealistic expectations about their body. More serious, negativity towards weight and body image can lead to low self-esteem, bad body image, social isolation, and eating disorders.
Fat shaming is wrong, and indeed, it’s just the same as bullying. Judging someone based on their physical appearance has also led many people into extreme depression. Typically, people are body-shamed when they appear overweight or underweight or don’t fit into society's perspective of thin and beautiful. Cassidy Lane, known as Body_positve_bartender on TikTok, is a recent victim of being treated poorly after gaining weight.
Cassidy Lane claimed her whole life changed during the pandemic as she suffered an eating disorder, but thankfully, she received help.
Cassidy tackled the subject matter in a clip (now-viral), using her personal experience as the case study. She shared how sudden people’s behavior with her changed at work when she started putting on weight. During the pandemic, the TikToker claimed her whole life changed as she suffered an eating disorder, but thankfully, she received help.
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But her workplace turn nightmarish! People’s behavior with Cassidy changed when they observed she had gained a few pounds.
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“So I work in the service industry, right, I’m a bartender, and if you were unaware, the way you look influences it a lot; whether that’s tips or how people treat you, it just does. Cassidy said. Seconds into the video, she became tearful as she told her audience how she had been treated since gaining weight, adding that “People don’t even look you in the eye anymore, and they’re not nice to you.”“People don’t even look you in the eye anymore, and they’re not nice to you.”
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The worst treatments she has ever received since gaining weight were mostly from men.
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According to Cassidy, she has discovered that she receives the worst treatment since gaining weight from men. The 28-Year-Old shared that she previously walk up to customers and receives positive responses. But at the moment, customers now order from her without even exchanging pleasantries. Her clip captioned: “We can all pretend it’s not true, but we know it is,” has gone viral, garnering over 4millions views, and it turned out her experience resonated with hundreds of viewers on the platform.A Clip Of Cassidy Before Vs. After Gaining Weight
Here’s What Said After Watching The Video:
