Ever felt frightened when out walking alone? It’s natural to feel afraid, especially as we live in an increasingly violent society where the fear of criminality is ever-present. Safety has suddenly become an issue of importance for everyone, particularly for women. You’ll agree that women aren’t to be blamed for tragic assaults and kidnappings, but a few people are emerging online, giving tips to stay safe.
Concerned about this state, Lauren Bell, whose nickname is Cardy Couture Boutique, has gone viral after sharing TikTok clips of advice on her dad's safety tips - a former member of the Secret Service. Lauren’s tips were initially shared on TikTok but have since migrated to Twitter. User @Ryanne quoted the TikTok claiming “Men Never Ask For Help,” and instantly, the statement sparked a heated debate. Specifically, the tip only means that if a man is flagging for assistance, it might be a strategy to get a woman close and lower her guard.
User @Ryanne quoted a TikTok clip that claimed “Men Never Ask For Help,” and instantly, the statement sparked a heated debate.
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Men have been questioning the tips' application while women agreed the information can be more valuable than they appear at first. Lauren of Pennsylvania shared how one of her dad’s lessons saved her life. She revealed how warnings from her dad, who urged her to question everything and everybody, led her to observe a man following her around in a store and ultimately escaping him when he approached her in the parking lot.Lauren Bell of Pennsylvania shared clips of her dad’s safety lessons, revealing one had led her to escape from a man that was following her around in a store.
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Lauren's dad urged her to question everything and everybody.
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If you feel being followed, Lauren advises making four turns which implies going in a circle for confirmation. If the person makes the same turns, he or she is following you. In relaying her dad’s advice, Lauren, who employed scenic, inspirational quotes, says one piece of safe advice her dad offered is: “Nothing good comes after 11 p.m. Accordingly, Lauren's dad warned her to “Never take a jog before 8 a.m.If you feel being followed, make four turns which imply going in a circle.
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Only order drinks that come in bottles as they are harder to drug.
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“Men Never Ask For Help” means if a man is flagging for assistance, it might be a strategy to get a woman close and lower her guard.
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Always have a Mace! It’s meant to be kept in your hand and not in a purse. When in a purse, Lauren claims it’s useless if it can’t be reached quickly enough. Besides, “headphones should never the house and someone trusted should know your whereabouts at all time.” On practical advice, he told Lauren only to order drinks that come in bottles as they are harder to drug.
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Always have a Mace! It’s meant to be kept in your hand and not in a purse.
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When out for daily activities, the former secret service agent, according to Lauren, said: “Keep your head on a swivel.” “Never turn your back towards the door.” And “Start worrying about what’s in your head and not what’s on it.” For traveling, Lauren’s dad claims “no one in Miami is a friend” and that “there is no such thing as a safe place in New York City.” Finally, he stated, “if you’re shopping and you are bumping into somebody several times, it is most likely not a coincidence.”Here's How People Reacted:
